Trelograms #25 — Dream Log

My maternal grandfather, with whom i shared a bedroom for most of the first couple of decades of my life, has been my single most important presence and reference. He passed away in 2010, at the age of 95-almost-96 (longevity ran in his family). Being raised by this wise and experienced man a generous lifetime older than me often felt magical — i was once certain (read hopeful) he was immortal.

I am now convinced ‘he’ no longer exists — at least not in any way i could interact with — except in my dreams!

For a few weeks after his passing, he was the subject of vivid dreams that i would often wake up from with a wide smile on my face! — duly filled by our recent “interaction” — grateful for the new “memory” from Grandpa to cherish until it dissipated along my morning routine.

Those dreams have become less and less frequent, and it’s been just a couple of those a year these days. A few years ago i decided to start “collecting” them — i’ll usually record them into my phone when i wake up in the middle of the night, and then transcribe them into a notebook in the morning. Even when i don’t remember the dream itself, hearing my groggy voice describing it is still refreshing!

One fascinating feature of those dreams is that i have never had a single negative interaction with Grandpa in any of them throughout all those years. I’m not sure how dreams are constructed and what that may or may not mean — it makes me look forward to a lifetime of occasional, unexpected visits from Grandpa though.

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Trelograms is a series of short inspirational and/or inquisitive reads written in counterpoint to my chronicles and concrete travel advice on cycle touring, hitchhiking or in general. The series title is a word play between ‘telegram’ and ‘trélos’ (Greek for ‘mad’). Follow the links to read more, and sign up for the Not Mad Yet mailing list to be notified when new articles go live and get other updates

5 thoughts on “Trelograms #25 — Dream Log

    1. I don’t know if he’ll come back ‘to’ ‘you’ — but i’d like to think he’s somehow still alive in everything he influenced one way or another and left a mark on!

  1. Esses dias tava conversando com a vó e ela contou algumas histórias aleatórias dele. Saiu aquele suor do olho… Deu muita saudade.

    1. Aproveita que você está morando lá e grava um áudios/vídeos dela contando essas e outras estórias!

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